Kamis, 26 Mei 2011

a story of couples

well, I just found out that there's a middle age woman who has a great experience of life. I knew her from twitter and starting to *kepo* about her life. even though it was a very complicated story (real story) yet I enjoyed to read it, I even download a PDF about her first twit until now. By reading it, you'll know every story of her life, she has a unique talent in the way she told people about her life through social network like twitter.

This is a brief of her story:
Mrs. Alexandra is a succesfull banker, her husband, Mr. Beno is a heart surgeon or lets say a cardiologist. They started to married but it didn't well so they got divorce. But after that, they realize how much they can't stand of each other being separated so they remarried and that's how everything goes. How Alex has to deal with his spoiled brat yet sweet husband? How they have to manage being separated when Beno had to go to NY for a fellowship? How they have to understand each other since they have a opposite character and they didn't want to fail for the second time? How about a child in their opinion?

haha. I started to tell te whole story, I think you should read it by your own :) I bet you can not stop reading it.

do follow @alexandrarheaw
and also download the PDF of her twits here

you'll learn many things by reading it and realize that relationship and marriage doesn't go as simple as we think.

ps: mrs. alexandra and her husband mr. beno are the hottest couple I ever know, even Prince William and Kate Middeton might not have a "cute" story like them :p

have fun reading it!

miss sunshine

twisted life

Our life is defined by our destiny. Destiny which is written by Almighty God.
We never know what will happen in the future, even for one minute ahead from now. Everything is a secret which only God who knows. We just let it flows, enjoy it, sometimes curse at it if it doesn't go well as we expected.

Life is a mystery. Upside down, that is what will happen to each of us. Sometimes we felt like we are very lucky to have a chance getting what we want. Sometimes we felt terrible when everything seem go away from us.

Believe it or not, God has its own way to make our life twisted, complicated, etc you named it. If we feel like we really want to have something then God doesn't let it to be yours,mine, orours and we'll start to feel terrible and said: why you did this God? But hey, who knows by letting something not to be yours then there will be another way that God's already prepared for us?

Maybe it is a sign from God. It is a way from God to say: "hey, you deserve better than that" or "that's not the path of your life" or "you went wrong, now I am turning you to the right way" or "be patient I give you a test, when you passed this, you'll get what you want".

Is that so?

Of course, it doesn't mean that we shouldn't do anything and just waiting until God shows the way. We have to struggle. If we deserve to earn what we had fight for it, then we'll earn it or maybe there's another way.

Maybe this is what I think when I failed of something or I haven't get what I want. I do believe that everything that happens in my life, it is my destiny from God yet still I have to struggle on it. As long as I fight for it, then when it failed I won't to be worried because there'll be a better way from me.

And also the most important thing is to feel grateful. You know, when I typed this, I am feeling grateful since I had my own laptop, internet connection, do not live under bridge or at the edge of railway, I can eat everytime that I want, I have my own car (even though it is always get on my nerves *grrrrr* upss, no grumbling please :p).

So, fight for your dreams, when it hasn't come true yet, you should believe that God leads you to another way that will be much better than now.

Enjoy your twisted life. That's how life goes!

miss sunshine

Kamis, 19 Mei 2011

Season 4 Finale of Gossip Girl :')

yesterday, i saw the last episode of Gossip Girl season 4 and it was just fsfksfjwrwe;rw',erw,rwi4294u2o4242o4 - which means I can describe it in proper or adequate words. Everything seems to be twisted.

I always love Chuck and Blair. They are so sweet to be together, but hold your breath because they aren't together at the end of this season 4 finale *sigh* even though it wasn't a happily never after ending, but I am optimistic that they're gonna be together at season 4 :D

This is the sweetest scene ever of them:
Chuck and Blair

and here is the dialogue:

Blair: Why did you just do that?

Chuck: Because of what you said earlier.

Blair: About being happy? Chuck, that’s not the most important thing. People don’t write sonnets about being compatible, or novels about shared life goals and stimulating conversation. The great loves are the crazy ones.
L’amour fou.

Chuck: Blair we’re not living in Paris in the 20s.

Blair: We both wish we were.

Chuck: There’s a difference between a great love and the right love. I left the Empire State Building last year after two minutes when you didn’t show. Louis waited all night. This is your chance at happiness. You think you shouldn’t want it ‘cause you’ve never had it and it scares you. But you deserve your fairytale.

Blair: We make our own fairytales.

Chuck: Only when we have to. You don’t. How do you feel about tonight?

Blair: Awful. I just… terrible. In fact I’ve never, felt like this before.

Chuck: Guilt. I feel it too. Maybe I’m actually growing up after all.

Blair: I didn’t wanna let you go just yet.

Chuck: Don’t let anyone tell you you’re not powerful. You’re the most powerful woman I know.

Blair: It’s taking all the power I have to walk away from you. Chuck: I know. But I need to let you go. You need to let go.

Blair: I will always love you.

Chuck: I will always love you.

aaaaaaa, they should be together, don't they?

miss sunshine

Senin, 16 Mei 2011


helloooo, it's been a while I didn't update my blog.

how's life?
yeah, kind of enjoy it, fun yet sometimes need to do something new to refresh my mind.

well, I just finished my final exam, so it means that the last semester is finally (hopefully) over and also it means my last time in college is gonna be over soon. hello, bachelor thesis! can't wait to wrap you up :)

In last Friday, I gave Yuris a birthday surprise. but not an extraordinary one. I gave my presence on his birthday :) haha. So, I went all the way from Bandung to Jakarta to give him that "so called surprise". It actually worked though since he was totally shocked.

And the next day, we had our time, just the two of us, strolling at some places which is so cool. it was fun :D


miss sunshine